They picked childhood experiences like cleaning the hallway closet on Saturday mornings, special red coats their mother sewed for them, and playing with cut-out dolls on the front steps. “My sister and I remembered the same events differently. In sharing our recall of these times, she filled in details of the little spaces of our growing up together that I never knew were spaces. I learned more of the life that we shared. For her to understand how much I had looked up to her brought us closer together.”